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Your quest is to honour what he feels and not try to project into him, what you believe to be true and think his part in all this means.
It’s not your role to crack anyone’s armour. As humans, regardless of what others need and feel for themselves, you have to respect him as he is. The more you believe in something you want them to be, or you think they need to be feeling, the more you’ll suffer through these processors.
Your journey requires you include how all that feels in you. He is a reflection for you to grow through.
You can still hold your beliefs, feel as you do, but honour the other as they are and need.
When you cling in unhealthy ways, you’ll never move through things with ease and deeper into yourself.
This is not to take away from your journey as you need, it’s supportive through sn awareness of someone who’s walked this path.
It’s not our job to crack people’s armour.
People’s processors are unique to them, it’s important you be aware, his journey may not be yours. His experiences are not anyone’s job to undo, but his.
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Free from all thought of “I” and “mine”, that man finds utter peace. ~Bhagavad Gita
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