Am I a goood candidate for Shamanic Healing, specially Soul Retrieval?

[susovan]

Hello,

In my love life (and also somewhat in professional life), I feel that I'm not able to have healthy, happy, long lasting relationships, despite I try with good intentions. I'm 40 and I'm just coming out of the only one proper relationship in my life; I've been with other women before, but the courtship etc. period never gave me any emotional fulfilment, unlike the most recent one, that lasted four months and was indeed emotionally satisfying, but ended on a very sad note. When I reflect upon the events that took place in this relationship or before, I can't help but feel that majority of what happened was not under my control, e.g. a few times I intended to have a proper relationships before, but they didn't, and this, despite me having been authentic and loyal to them and acting with genuine care. In the most recent one, we even declared our love for one another (my first time of this happening), and yet there was severe miscommunication that destroyed everything and my (ex) partner blocked me everywhere (despite I was loyal; caring but my fault was to criticize her harshly in a privately shared document between us, albeit it was intended for such criticisms and I took her criticisms well, and she did that first, before me).

Anyway, I feel not being able to progress and I've no idea why this is happening. I'm 40, and I'd like some stability in my love life. I'm fairly inexperienced in relationships, but am willing to learn.

I'm considering Shamanic Healing, especially Soul Retrieval, to heal any emotional wounds/traumas or psychological issues that I may have, so I can be more self-loving and loving to others. So I'm planning to have a few Shamanic Healing sessions to enrich my love life.

My questions are:

1) Given the details above, am I a good candidate for Shamanic Healing? If no, is there any specific healing(s) that can better the quality of my relationship(s)?

2) If I do end up taking Shamanic Healing, what are some homework that I need to do my own to aid this healing?

Thank you so much!

[Miss Hepburn]

Best relationship advice I could give, ever!

First: 'The 5 Love Languages: The Secret to Lasting Love' , Gary Chapman
A must

#2 'Getting the Love You Want' , Dr Harville Hendricks

[Redchic12]

Book……”the five love languages” recommended by Miss H is excellent!

If you want my opinion, I would say to go and have a few sessions with a good therapist first and see where YOU are going wrong and what you could do to improve your relationships.

We all need to look at ourselves from time to time. No shame in that.

[Native spirit]

I would agree with what has already been said, you have to learn to love yourself before you can truly love anyone else.
No amount of Healing can repair your Relationships only you can do that



Namaste