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Originally Posted by Ewwerrin
There is still some blaming in forgiveness.
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I find this not to be my experience because there is no blaming in forgiving. You can't forgive if you blame. One does not feel blame. But I think this is the crux of the decision. If you forgive you must show love.
In forgiving (it is said) you show love and compassion. There is a clarity.
I've noticed when people have forgiven others will usually say they shouldn't and not to. The difference between trying to love and trying to forgive maybe. We know we should love spiritually but we do not love as well as we should but love the best we can and forgiveness is about love. Forgiveness is about loving and remember loving happens later.
I've noticed something when talking about forgiving we don't mention. It is about love. Anyway my experience when I forgave. I did not know it would happen. We all have our own experiences don't we.
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