update in case anyone would care, LOL. What has happened in real life came to me almost like a surprise. I was to come in contact with the woman when I did not expect to and said who I was and the way I said it was I suppose assertive in a way, not angry or anything but I could still hear my own voice and it was sort of like a punch. Perhaps a punch to her, I don't know. She had no cocky reaction to it but sounded let down and said something.
Now afterwards I have thought of the dream, maybe it was something of the future, not a punch, but a punch-line?
Perhaps karma. She surprised me once and let me stand there feeling humiliated and somehow this time even if this sound childish I know it almost feel as if there has become balance again.
I asked him if he was busy. In the past he would just say yes at most I think and not so much more and I would take that as a sign that I was in the way or not welcomed. Today it was "Yes, I am busy but I still got some time... please…".