I really don't think I'm supposed to actually be with Anyone...

[FlyingFree]

Energetically I feel attached to someone right now. I am generally happy anyway so and I only see a relationship enhancing that.

Originally Posted by RedEmbers

There are things in everything which we manifest which we may find uncomfortable and even unwanted. They are the consequences of our desires. .

This may seem like an extreme elaboration but say you love someone and that person doesn't want to be with you. Your only option is to let go or basically kidnap them.. LOL What I am saying is my core values do not permit me from kidnapping someone because I believe in the free will of someone to decide for themself what they want.

It's like you want it but you don't want it bad enough to compromise your other beliefs.

[JustBe]

Originally Posted by FlyingFree

Right now I don't feel like energy has a problem flowing through my body. In fact I actually see it flowing globally which is strange. I see it go through me and others and from off planet. It flow sacross the entire planet. But then I don't really think people are all that separate either. So what can flow through one person can flow through it all collectively.

Energy is one aspect of your humanness

The body/mind as a whole is your vehicle.

You can play in the land of energy but to me that’s playing safe.




To put yourself out into the world physically as all you are and know yourself to be means you’ll become more aware of you and where and how you fit.


You say your connected to someone energetically? That’s not all of you connected. So aside from energy what part of you isn’t willing ?

You have to be willing to talk, move, act, ask, receive be open to things beyond energy. You’ve got to be willing to take risks, put yourself out into the world and be open as your seeking.

And of course you’ve got to be willing to receive Knock backs, feel hurt, feel and let go, pull your socks up and do it all again..

[RedEmbers]

I don't recommend kidnapping
Hehe.
Within acceptance of actual reality, there are choices too and we can choose all manner of consequences to each choice.


I do also strongly connect to what JustBe is mentioning.

[FlyingFree]

Originally Posted by JustBe

Energy is one aspect of your humanness

The body/mind as a whole is your vehicle.

You can play in the land of energy but to me that’s playing safe.




To put yourself out into the world physically as all you are and know yourself to be means you’ll become more aware of you and where and how you fit.


You say your connected to someone energetically? That’s not all of you connected. So aside from energy what part of you isn’t willing ?

You have to be willing to talk, move, act, ask, receive be open to things beyond energy. You’ve got to be willing to take risks, put yourself out into the world and be open as your seeking.

And of course you’ve got to be willing to receive Knock backs, feel hurt, feel and let go, pull your socks up and do it all again..

It's not me who is unwilling. But her energy don't let me go to move on. Otherwise I would.

[JustBe]

Originally Posted by FlyingFree

It's not me who is unwilling. But her energy don't let me go to move on. Otherwise I would.

Um, reading that, I would say it’s a choice in you not the other.

If there is an energetic containment in you from outside you, that’s not yours, then if you agree to its also you holding on to it.

[RedEmbers]

If there is no part of you which wants this connection with the specific person, then you have alignment. Are you able to get some help to clear the energy out?
To set a firm boundary. As you mentioned earlier, you have that free will to do so.


If there is a part of you which still has some kind of investment in the connection, it may be worth exploring that aspect of yourself in relation to the connection? This can be done as an inner journey or with the support of a trusted person if you have one.

[FlyingFree]

Originally Posted by JustBe

Um, reading that, I would say it’s a choice in you not the other.

If there is an energetic containment in you from outside you, that’s not yours, then if you agree to its also you holding on to it.

I truly enjoy her energy and love when she comes to me. But she doesn't want to be with me other then in a non physical relationship. So. She keeps coming to me. And since I am not in a relationship. I don't see anything wrong with spending enjoyable time with her. At least it's enjoyable. To be honest I don't even know how to cut off the connection. Other then trying to ignoring the energy. How does one cut those cords?

[FlyingFree]

Originally Posted by RedEmbers

If there is no part of you which wants this connection with the specific person, then you have alignment. Are you able to get some help to clear the energy out?
To set a firm boundary. As you mentioned earlier, you have that free will to do so.


If there is a part of you which still has some kind of investment in the connection, it may be worth exploring that aspect of yourself in relation to the connection? This can be done as an inner journey or with the support of a trusted person if you have one.

Like i said in the previous comment I do enjoy the connection. Because that is all I have had in many years. So exploring it i have. There is something in me that it is fulfilling even if it is not completely what I want because it will never lead to a real physical relationship. The question is? Do I need to try and ignore it. And hope it goes away. without much harm to me or my family. Or accept it? And I don't know if it's her harming me or my family spiritually. I'm just not that advanced a practitioner to no for certain. I mean it could be someone else.

[FlyingFree]

I mean the main reason we stopped talking in real life is because I was encouraged by my family to stop talking with her. I think my mindset at the time that was encouraged by my family was that if she isn't going to commit then no point you wasting your time and also I had a mindset that I wanted a relationship with someone and not to just be a friendship. I felt like it would be hard to deal with always wanting a relationship. Now my mindset is completely different in that I am OK with just being friends with someone. But when you have those feelings It is hard to just be friends and separate those desires.

[FlyingFree]

Also to be honest. I don't even really know if it's her visiting me or someone else? Cause I can't differentiate people in astral form. I wish I new how but that isn't public knowledge. Gotta join a secret society to find out I guess.