saw twin again last friday

#1 01-12-2012, 05:00 AM

Saw robert on friday, got a panicked msg on friday asking for my phone number.
He wanted me to come to his girlfriend and his house to over see his cat having kittens.
So I went and his mum and his two older brothers were there who know me well. And his girlfriend and his two kids. It was intense and I found it hard. This was the second time I had heard from him since july and was the result of me getting him the cat as a kitten back in march.
End result I am gonna have a kitten from the litter even tho only three were born.
His girlfriend wasn't happy at all and his energy was all over the place if I'm honest.
Not sure how to feel about it at all really as he took me into his family home that he shares with his kids and gf
Would love some views on this situation please

#2 02-12-2012, 01:11 AM

It sounds like a wonderful request to me. Even though it was uncomfortable, I think anytime someone invites you into their personal space, its an honor to the person asked.

The last time I saw my tf he asked me to visit his house for the first time and meet his wife and kids. I told him that I would be honored to meet his family, and it was so right for me to do so.

Concentrate on the positive feelings. He obviously felt it was important for you to be there to share the experience.

Nymphea · #3 03-12-2012, 10:42 AM

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Originally Posted by zen_path

It sounds like a wonderful request to me. Even though it was uncomfortable, I think anytime someone invites you into their personal space, its an honor to the person asked.

The last time I saw my tf he asked me to visit his house for the first time and meet his wife and kids. I told him that I would be honored to meet his family, and it was so right for me to do so.

Concentrate on the positive feelings. He obviously felt it was important for you to be there to share the experience.

I feel this way too, just try to enjoy the special feeling. He invited you in his personal space and that means a lot. My TF texted me in early october to ask me if I felt like coming over to help him to do some painting. I noticed the underlying meaning of his question (something practical used as a good reason to invite me) and I got into the car! I was so happy that he wanted to see me. It was the second time we were together with just the two of us.