Limited by settling for one person?

[someguy92]

Believe me we are monogamous. Family is basic structure of out society, family is father mother and children, nothing else. Dont go the promiscous way, the media lie its not a path you want to go, ultimately it will destroy you. It will leave you emotionally void, destroy your mind and corrupt you. It will literally numb you + STD. Seriously anyone who says we should be free, only have fun, please answer this have you really choose this path and trully walked it? Have you seen those bachelors, those who in the end kill themselves, because they end up alone? Have you been so psychically damaged by it so that you even cannot have proper relationship? Its fun from start, but it drags you, it corrupts you, it numbs you until you cannot even have healthy proper relationship with one person.Those people are hurt, they need healing but in 80% they wont get any help and they end up miserable and alone. Believe me one person, whom you can trust and share the ups and downs is all you need, no one limits you only you limit yourself. Only you choose how much you want to be limited. But limits are important, we need limits otherwise we would go insane.

[MIND POWER]

Originally Posted by someguy92

Believe me we are monogamous. Family is basic structure of out society, family is father mother and children, nothing else. Dont go the promiscous way, the media lie its not a path you want to go, ultimately it will destroy you. It will leave you emotionally void, destroy your mind and corrupt you. It will literally numb you + STD. Seriously anyone who says we should be free, only have fun, please answer this have you really choose this path and trully walked it? Have you seen those bachelors, those who in the end kill themselves, because they end up alone? Have you been so psychically damaged by it so that you even cannot have proper relationship? Its fun from start, but it drags you, it corrupts you, it numbs you until you cannot even have healthy proper relationship with one person.Those people are hurt, they need healing but in 80% they wont get any help and they end up miserable and alone. Believe me one person, whom you can trust and share the ups and downs is all you need, no one limits you only you limit yourself. Only you choose how much you want to be limited. But limits are important, we need limits otherwise we would go insane.

I agree (Slightly) with the media promoting promiscuous towards women & men, i mean if i got with a girl and found out that she was prancing about like Miley Cyrus or some sort of porn star. Then she just gets regulated to sex (I doubt i would get in a serious relationship with that type of woman), women are the receivers not matter how masculine they want to act. That's why instinctively, they do think more about who they are going to play around with. And that's always a good sign to see that in a woman, that she thinks very highly of herself! and that's the way they should be, they are the attraction! That's why they receive more attention than men.

Us men are the intention we have to put it all out!, but things are being screwed these days you have men prancing about like are the attraction.

And if a woman found out that i was prancing about doing all sorts, then also she deserves to not trust me! The qaulity of people you play with also reflects the type of person you are.

But people deserve to be able to explore and not feel pressured into settling down, you should only settle down for love! that's it! nothing else. But most people don't do that, and that's why they are miserable sometimes. The media does allot of things it scares people especially women into settling down, with any man. All these romantic comedy's or whatever, when women are the vocal point of the movie its only really ever about finding a man getting married movie finished.

But all in all, only settle for the love. Don't be scared into serious relationships because of the media or society/peer pressure. Explore and play around and see who's best. When i settle down seriously, with a woman i want to win her on Merritt.......which i presume is love.

:And even though i said that at the start of my post, i can't judge people so quickly! who know's what love can do to you.

[lenvdb64]

Being a Sagittarian (like myself) is all about experiencing life as a free spirit. We do not like to be chained down.

I however made up my mind I am better and stronger in a stable relationship. My partner and I allow each other the space we need for growth spiritually and we are stronger together. We are all made differently.

[TheGlow]

Originally Posted by Starbuck

Maybe I just haven't found love yet. Only time will tell on that.

I agree familiarity can be comforting but that can come down to personality. I enjoy exploring new territories, making new people, having new experiences.

No right or wrong really, just how we're all made.

Hi Starbuck,
I think you've been lucky not to find the one just yet.

You are obviously growing and learning about exactly who you are.
I married young (started dating at 17) and wow we have change so much it was to early for us to settle down though I do love him but we aren't a terribly good match.

I like you love to explore and experience things, maybe if you found someone who liked to do the same and not restrict your life, but actually enrich your experience you would be happy to commit long term.

If not at least you have been true to yourself. It can be very lonely in the wrong relationship too so I'm not sure that should be an issue.
Be well.

[Emmalevine]

Promiscuous is the very last thing I am, believe me. I'm not talking about sleeping with multiple guys, I'm talking about struggling with the idea of one guy for the rest of my life. At the moment I feel happier alone. This may be due to my experience of bad relationships where I have felt trapped. I'm a sagattarian so maybe that explains why I'm a free spirit. Perhaps you're right and I'm still growing and learning.