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27-12-2021, 12:30 PM
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Ascender
Join Date: May 2021
Location: Europe
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Hi Red, and welcome!
To answer your question directly: yes.
The way you think, what you think about, your energy, your mood, all of that attracts and repulses people and situations. And to a huge extent, probably way beyond what you can imagine.
So if you study criminology, you will end up seeing a world of crimes.
If you believe sex is important, you will see the world in a sexualized way.
If you think people make jokes on you, you will attract these situations.
It's about fear. If you meet a wandering dog and start running away, the dog will chase you.
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27-12-2021, 01:00 PM
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Ascender
Join Date: May 2021
Location: Europe
Posts: 908
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To continue on my post
All these beliefs and thoughts that you built in your mind, or that others transmitted to you,
they can be "unlearned", you can rewire yourself.
For that you can subscribe to my program, it has 10 lessons, each of them $1000
No, just kidding!!
For that the solution is to sit and meditate. Let go of your thoughts. Still your mind.
It takes hours and hours of meditation to let go and become peaceful.
And then you will attract love, good people, good energy etc etc.
You may also need to let go of bad relationships with some people, because people around you may transmit negativity to you, and it way affect you. And bad habits also.
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27-12-2021, 08:37 PM
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Master
Join Date: Mar 2013
Posts: 3,515
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I find the easiest way to do it is to choose different people. People who make me feel happy being myself. The more people I feel happy around, the fewer undesirable people I have around me and the small amount of undesirable people feel much less of a burden to me.
It is about what I choose to focus on and gather evidence in support of. So I consciously choose people who love, understand and support my best interests and then I gather all the evidence I need about how I am loved, supported and surrounded by people/places and things who want to understand me and have my best interests at heart.
Haha... I have adhd and and asd (my adhd is more challenging for me).
My therapist pretty much stopped all business with me as soon as he said these words to me "it's all about what I choose to focus on".
As soon as I choose a focus, it becomes my reality.
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27-12-2021, 09:17 PM
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Ascender
Join Date: May 2021
Location: Europe
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Quote:
Originally Posted by RedEmbers
As soon as I choose a focus, it becomes my reality.
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Yes, this is it!!
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28-12-2021, 01:23 AM
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Master
Join Date: Jun 2013
Posts: 2,635
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Celibacy is a definite must for me while in reincarnation _ I think you can have relationships with intimacy like kissing but seen as a death by cause and affect I believe we should be connected on soul level- like recognising the person for who they are is important for intimacy… holding hands, kissing, hugging, massages… going out - dinners—- arts and crafts, holidays… there more to a relationship than sex…
You will meet the right one but when your ready—- no one should have to live with inserts or for forcefulness’ and many circumstances give way to that cause and affect…
It’s great your meeting new propels and I don’t see anything wrong in you cutting or the unhealthy relationships- no one should have to move that fast… unless you don’t have time—- but you seem to have time…
Love your username _ reminds me of lana del ray blue banisters - great album!!*
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Vampire speed..
Arabic first language (English)—- bear with me and please be patient)
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28-12-2021, 10:31 AM
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Knower
Join Date: Nov 2021
Location: India
Posts: 236
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Quote:
Originally Posted by RedThunderbird
Shortly after that I started developing an interest in true crime and criminal psych...<snipped...>
So now I've got a question. Specifically...Is it possible to attract the wrong people?
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It seems that your interest in crime is at least partly responsible for attracting the wrong kind of people. I dont know what your insights are on criminal psychology, but if you delve too deeply into that, you could be inviting trouble. As the Buddha said.... What you think you become. This quote doesnt exactly apply to you because you are not a criminal, but in a way criminals are part of your life, so in a way that's true even for you.
Another possibility is that the universe may be sending you these kind of people so that you could help them heal themselves.
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02-01-2022, 07:01 AM
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Sorry you feel it is bad people you attract to yourself but if you think about it you gotta have good people too in your life that you attract, no? That is at least how it is for me, I attract both. I also connect to different parts, qualities, personality quirks, in someone than I do differently to someone else. Every human being has one layer after another, and it is a mix, someone can be both good and bad, the good are the wisdom it already has and the bad the ignorance, to me, that's how I read it.
Please try not to isolate yourself thinking that is the only type of friends you do attract, because I simply don't think that's true.
The only thing one can do is to state your case when someone says, do a bad thing towards you and if it is worth throwing the friendship aboard. In some cases it is and in others it isn't, that's all up to you, don't loose touch with yourself and what you find is accepted behavior and not in a friend.
I have for instance a soft side to me and a "rebel" side to me, my soft side attract good people but it too attracts people who think they can have their way with me - that is until I show my rebel side or my strong side, when I put up boundaries, than usually when they get that they skip right out of there. Had I let these bad people dominate the show and think it is only them I attract - that's when they would have won, for sure. But the others good ones are there too...:)
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13-01-2022, 02:27 PM
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Master
Join Date: Aug 2012
Location: Purgatory
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27-12-2021, 07:30 AM
Guillaume*
Experiencer
Join Date: May 2021
Location: Europe
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Hi Red, and welcome!
To answer your question directly: yes.
The way you think, what you think about, your energy, your mood, all of that attracts and repulses people and situations. And to a huge extent, probably way beyond what you can imagine.
So if you study criminology, you will end up seeing a world of crimes.
If you believe sex is important, you will see the world in a sexualized way.
If you think people make jokes on you, you will attract these situations.
It's about fear. If you meet a wandering dog and start running away, the dog will chase you.
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I agree with your post, it is really about the energy a person gives off.
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